Knowing a little baptism etiquette can make you feel much more at ease at an event in which many people have little experience. Baptism gift etiquette and having good etiquette and manners prepared never hurts.
A baptism represents a religious event. A child is being received into the church and congregation. This is a little different from a christening in which a child traditionally receives his or her name. Note, however, that many baptisms combine these two into one affair.
Other names sometimes used for a baptism include a Naming Ceremony and a Dedication. These two alternatives may or may not be religious in nature, but serve a similar purpose of greeting the child and welcoming him or her into the extended family.
Invitations
On average a baptism takes place within the first six months of a child’s life. Invitation protocol instructs mailing the invitations about four weeks before the event. This gives family and friends from out of town enough time to plan their travels.
As far as attendees go, close friends and family members, and their partners or children usually litter the invitation list. Either the parents of the newborn or the godparents take care of sending invitations. If there is a reception following the event, the invitation should include an address and directions for people unfamiliar with the area.
As with other formal occasions, remember avoiding abbreviations on the outside and inside of the invitation. Personalize and sign them.
Dress
The basic rule for baptism etiquette in terms of what to wear is think of the typical “Sunday best” outfits. Keep in mind that the vast majority of baptisms occur in churches – keep it simple and tasteful (nothing too flashy).
Baptism Gift Etiquette
If you’ve chosen godparents for your child, it’s customary to present them with a gift, and the godparents likewise bring something for the baby, often made out of silver (representing a wish for prosperity). Thus the phrase, "born with a silver spoon." (See the Related Links section below for gifts for the baby).
The parents of the child should donate money to the officiant and potentially also the church. Sometimes it’s acceptable to provide the officiant a gift instead.
Attendees do not have to bring a gift for the family or baby, especially if you attended a shower before the child’s birth.
At the Ceremony
If you’re provided with a booklet that describes the order of the ritual, take a quick peek. You want to know what, if anything, is expected of guests. Religious ceremonies often include group movements, words, or singing. If you keep your eyes on people in front of you, and do your best to follow along, Miss Manners will be pleased.
Even if you don’t get everything right, practical etiquette bases itself in thoughtfulness. Your baptism etiquettes shines from a joyful heart. Let that guide you.
Baptism Invitations
Here is a selection of baptism invitations. There is a wide variety, so take your time and find something you like. If you do not find exactly what you are looking for, click on the store name to go directly to the store's website to search more easily.
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Note: Below this table is a selection of related pages that you might wish to explore for more information related to baptism and the new baby's arrival.
A curious owl perches on a branch while eagerly awaiting the exciting announcement! This enchanting Baptism and Christening invitation ingeniously blends vibrant color with a muted backdrop.
The elaborate hand-drawn designs and bright colors give this Baptism invitation an exuberant, artistic feel. Two lovebirds are perched atop the photo, as if protectively keeping watch over the new Christian-to-be.
Pink invite for your baptism. These Faithful Dove Pink Invitations (8 count) have a dove a cross and a colorful border on the bottom. Inside Message Reads: For Date Time Place Given By RSVP (wording may vary slightly). Package includes 8 envelopes. Material: Paper.
Invite all the new parents family and friends. These Faithful Dove Blue Baptism Invitations (8 count) have a darling dove and cross on a stylish blue background. Inside Message Reads: For Date Time Place Given By RSVP (wording may vary slightly). Package includes 8 envelopes. Material: Paper.
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Style in Three Mint & Brown" features three of your baby's photos on this sleek, contemporary design. The stylized chocolate brown and mint green
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Guiding Angel Beige" features a beautiful wood-block press angel design on a clean beige background. The heavenly angel is standing tall, holding
Send an invitation for your son's baptism with lovely decorations that will win over everyone! A baby blue swirl and cross perfectly accent the details of his baptism on this graceful invitation. 5" x 7" Flat Card
With a single cross, pink background, and a beautifully colored border, your daughter's baptism serves as the focus in this especially adorable invitation. 7" x 5" Flat Card
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Chocolate and Mint Stripes" features your baby's photos on this cute, contemporary design. The background is comprised of different size horizonta
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Chocolate and Pink Stripes" features your baby's photos on this cute, contemporary design. The background is comprised of different size horizonta
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Gumballs on Orange" features your baby's photo on this clean, contemporary design. The pastel pumpkin background is complemented by a chocolate br
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Take Three on Chocolate" features three of your baby's photos on this simple, contemporary design. The chocolate brown background is accented by d
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Double Double Blue" features your baby's photos on this clean, contemporary design. The pastel light blue background is split into four regions, t
A Delicate and graphic dove pattern gives a these Baptism and Christening invitations a distincly modern style. This minimal design still captures the sanctity of the occasion.
Delicate floral motifs adorn the event details in this sweet, vintage-inspired baptism invitation. A luxurious typeface draws attention toward the lovely new Christiana€ s name.
Announce your son's baptism with the help of this beautiful card. With a blue background and blue and chocolate swirls, this invitation celebrates his upcoming big day. 7" x 5" Flat Card
Customize the information for your son's first communion on a beautiful invitation, featuring a border of blue diamonds and single blue cross. We'll mail them directly to your friends and family. 5" x 7" Flat Card
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Twinkle Toes" features two, adorable baby feet resting on a white-crocheted quilt. A soft white-textured blanket covers all but the two little fe
Baptism Christening Invititations: "Pinky" features an aerial view of an adorable baby, wearing a pink-crocheted cap (complete with multi-colored, light roses) and a pink lace outfit
A simple cross pendant is beautifully incorporated into this timeless christening invitation. A classic lace border is the perfect finishing touch to a thoroughly sophisticated design.
If Baptism Etiquette didn't quite answer your question, here is more information on events related to the baby's arrival:
Baptism Gift Etiquette: If you were invited to a baptism and are looking for a gift for the baby, here is an outline of what to look for as well as some examples of gifts.
Invitation Etiquette: Need help on when to send the invitation? This will help. You can disregard the "Dinner" in the title, as the protocol is covered across multiple events.
Baby Shower Etiquette: If you are planning the baby shower, this page will help lay out the steps to be followed. It also has a selection of baby shower invitations at the bottom of the page to consider.
Appropriate Gift Etiquette: Stuck on choosing the "right" gift? This page will help clarify how to go about your gift selection.
Ms Practical Etiquette: If you are looking for a personalized answer, send your question to Miss Practical Etiquette. You will have a response within 48 hours.
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